Resources
As someone who spends a lot of time studying and learning about how to heal myself and others, it feels important to share some of the tools and resources that have been helpful to me. While this list is far from exhaustive, it’s a great starting place on some of my favorite topics. May it be of benefit!
Mental Health Resources
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Trained counselors available for individuals, families and friends. Call 1-866-427-4747, text: HOME to 741741 or visit www.crisistextline.org.
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This training gives you the skills you need to reach out and provide initial help and support to someone who may be developing a mental health or substance use problem or experiencing a crisis. Check out their extensive list of resources or sign up for a course at www.mentalhealthfirstaid.org/take-a-course/
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Provides information, resource referrals and support to people living with a mental health condition, their family members and caregivers. Call 800-950-6264 or send an email to info@nami.org.
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988 Suicide & Crisis Lifeline—We can all help prevent suicide. The Lifeline provides 24/7, free and confidential support for people in distress, prevention and crisis resources for you or your loved ones, and best practices for professionals in the United States.
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Providers offer sessions for individuals, couples and families between $30 and $60. Visit openpathcollective.org to learn more.
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Provides 24/7 crisis support services to LGBTQ young people. Text, chat, or call anytime to reach a trained counselor: Text ‘START’ to 678-678 or Call at 1-866-488-7386
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Peer support help line for people living with emotional and mental health challenges. Call 877- 500-WARM (9276) TTY: 206-461-3610 or visit www.crisisconnections.org/wa-warm-line.
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Provides counseling and therapy from providers who understand the specific needs of people of color and various cultures. Visit multiculturalcounselors.org to learn more.
Anti-Racism & Anti-Oppression
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Racial Equity Tools Glossary (article)
How to Be an Antiracist by Ibram X. Kendi (book)
Me & White Supremacy by Layla Saad (book)
Showing Up for Racial Justice (SURJ) & Coalition of Anti-Racist Whites (CARW)
So You Want to Talk About Race by Ijeoma Oluo (book)
The 1619 Project by Nikole Hannah-Jones (book / website / podcast / docuseries)
White Supremacy Culture by Tema Okun (original 1999 article + website/book updated 2021)
White Privilege: Unpacking the Invisible Knapsack by Peggy McIntosh (article)
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Decolonial Dictionary (website)
Land Acknowledgements
Learn the names of the native tribes whose land you live on: https://native-land.ca/
Learn about the LANDBACK movement
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Real Rent calls on people who live and work in Seattle to make rent payments to the Duwamish Tribe, who are still federally unrecognized. Join me in paying Real Rent at realrentduwamish.org
Gender, Sexuality, and Relationships
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Wheel of Consent (article / book / videos)
Nonviolent Communication (book / website)
Yes/No/Maybe Lists: The Center, Diana Sadat, Autostraddle
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LGBTQ+ Vocabulary Glossary of Terms (article)
The Coming Out Handbook (article)
Gender & Sexuality 101 (article)
What is the difference between gender and sexuality? (article)
Pronouns 101 (article)
Why Pronouns Matter (video)
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BDSM 101 (article)
Kink Academy (website with lots of free educational videos)
Playing Well With Others: Your Field Guide to Discovering, Navigating and Exploring the Kink, Leather and BDSM Communities, by Mollena Williams-Haas & Lee Harrington (book)
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More Than Two by Franklin Veaux & Eve Rickert (book / website)
Loving More (website with lots of resources)
Polysecure: Attachment, Trauma, & Consensual Nonmonogamy by Jessica Fern (book)
The Ethical Slut: Third Edition by Janet W. Hardy & Dossie Easton (book)
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Radical Dharma by Rev. angel Kyodo williams, Lama Rod Owens, Dr. Jasmine Syedullah (book)
Start Where You Are by Pema Chodron (book)
Thich Nhat Hanh (many books!)
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